The producers of NBC's Age of Love could easily have used Overland Park nightspot Raoul's as a permanent set. If you don't know Age of Love, it pits 40-something women against 20-something women, all vying for the "prize" of a single bachelor (whose age, naturally, isn't a factor). Much more interesting than TV, though, is the reality that takes place every weekend at Raoul's, where dewy collegiate types share the dance floor with freshly frosted divorcees. The décor is classy: dimly lighted, with black-and-white tiles, lots of cocktail tables and a dance floor perfectly sized so that even the smallest circle of dancing women won't feel like an island. Raoul's routinely books bands, such as Disco Dick and the Mirror Balls, to perform intergenerational party songs that refuse to die. So why shouldn't the dance floor be awash with women the same ages as Lindsay and Dina Lohan?